Love the Brotherhood
The liturgical rites of the Church can be strikingly formative. I once visited a Benedictine monastery and attended one of the sung offices of the monks. I was particularly moved witnessing the monks, as they entered and exited their stalls, bow first to the altar and then, two by two from the opposing sides of the choir, turn to bow toward his...
Restoring Justice to Politics
I had a teacher in high school who provided the class with an interesting definition of politics. Defining politics, he maintained, was as simple as just breaking down the word into its parts: poly = many, tics = blood-sucking creatures. I think we can all agree that’s pretty accurate… All jokes aside, the sad reality is that many people...
Cafeterias. Men Should Stay Out of Them.
I have been eating in a cafeteria for the past few weeks. The buffet is a tempting death trap – pick what you want, as much as you want, and only what you want. I am the master of my own culinary consumption – which is more or less true at restaurants or at home, but the cafeteria buffet line takes it to levels beyond what any human can take. T...
Porn Addiction: A Comprehensive Recovery Program
Eight years ago, when people began coming to me for help with pornography addiction, they were searching for a Catholic recovery program. I searched everywhere, but could not find one. After much prayer and discernment, I realized that God was calling me to create one. Rather than “reinvent the wheel” I decided to research several success...
Dear Class of 2017…
Dear Men of The Class of 2017: Somehow it’s already June, so most of you have been through commencement by this point. Your high school classes, teachers, and friends are already a distant memory. You’re likely enjoying the long summer days doing anything but school work. Many of you are now looking ahead to college, or perhaps a job. You pr...
This Is Your Invitation To Retreat On The Farm
This article is an invitation to St. Joseph’s Farm. For now, this event is limited to Exodus 90 men, preferably groups of brothers that went through Exodus together. Spots are open for Memorial Day weekend, May 26-29. The cost is $280 and includes lodging and food alongside The Green River in Western, NC. My wife and I began our littl...
You Must Encounter Christ Immediately
You must encounter Christ immediately, but it doesn't have to be right away. As with all things, it should happen, and can only happen, in God's timing. Make sense? If not, allow me to explain. Consider this definition of "immediately": "without intervening medium or agent; concerning or affecting directly" (Dictionary.com, 2016). By this defi...
A Lesson in Fraternity from Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Catholic men must regard as indispensable the need to gather together in fellowship with other men who profess our same creed. To do so is not an option, except insofar as Christ affords us the freedom to choose to neglect this foundational aspect of Christian life. The reason why we must gather together in fellowship with other Catholic men is...
Exodus 90: Prayer, Fraternity, Asceticism
The Origin of Exodus 90 Exodus 90 is the fruit of a priest’s prayer and priestly experience. It emerged from a seminary years ago, where he encountered a profound need. Today, it’s transforming thousands of Catholic men (priests, seminarians and laymen alike), across the country and beyond. Fr. Brian Doerr was assigned as the Vice Rector of...
Start A Fraternus Chapter
Boys cannot become men without men. Pope Pius XI once pointed out the fact that, especially during the formative years, the sexes should be separated: False and harmful to Christian education today is the so-called method of ‘co-education’… a deplorable confusion of ideas… The Creator has ordained and disposed perfect union of the sexes ...