All Men Must Read The Odyssey
The following was featured in Sword & Spade, a magazine for men edited by Jason Craig. The Odyssey by Homer is one of those towering works that has been read and taught by scholars for so long that it might seem best left to them, not to be enjoyed by the common man. I propose that every Catholic man, as an inheritor of the great Western Tr...
A Catholic Man’s Response to #MeToo
Let’s begin this article with a controversial statement: Toxic masculinity is real and has been since near the beginning of human existence. (Note: so too has toxic femininity, but it’s not the topic of this article.) Many men hate this indictment and resist it. After all, who wants to be painted with the same broad brush that touches sexua...
A Call to Pastors: Reach Out to Your Men
You guys all know, if you happen to go to Mass on a regular basis, that the majority of faithful Mass goers are women…especially at daily Mass. Chances are, the parish is run by women as well, apart from the pastor. I remember my first assignment as a missionary and realizing there was only one or two women that would serve daily Mass. Where are ...
Fr. Miguel Juarez, A Hero for Christ
Miguel Augustin Pro Juarez was ordained a Priest in Belgium on August 31, 1925. Already by 1926, however, due to his poor health, Fr. Miguel’s superiors sent him back to his homeland of Mexico. Thus began his story of heroic suffering for which he is known. Less than a month after his arrival home, “an order suppressing all public worship...
Healthy Sexuality for Couples Facing Sexual Addiction
When I work with couples facing sexual addiction, they often question how they should address being sexual in their marriage. Some spouses may want to maintain their marital sex life and others may want to avoid it altogether. While a healthy sex life is important for any marriage, when recovering from sexual addiction there is much healing nee...
Leader, Provider, Protector: A Man’s Mission.
When working with men dealing with a variety of issues, one thing I’ve found they all seem to struggle with is a lack of a sense of mission. To live a happy, fulfilling and productive life, we need to know our primary purpose, our mission. For men, that mission is to be effective leaders, providers, and protectors. This is our nature. A w...