We sat under the moon at Monreau Seminary on the campus of Notre Dame; seven college men from the University of St. Thomas and one holy priest.

As we re-hashed our weeklong conference on leadership in Catholic education, our conversation led to many cultural tragedies that find rationalization in academia: man-hating feminism, gender identity confusion, privilege this that and the other, and the ever allusive micro-aggression. Discouragement was in my heart and in that of my peers. And then, out of nowhere, a smirk arose on the face of our priest. He sat up, lowered his Romeo y Julietta, and said words that I’ll never forget: “Men, of all times, now is the best to be a Christian.”

Between what has been, and what may become, we find ourselves now.

As Catholics, we are called to otherworldliness, to pray more than we do, to converse with Jesus, Mary and the saints as much or more than we do with the people in our lives. Because they are people in our lives! This isn’t pious talk. There’s an immaterial world breaking in upon us, which only faith and the practice of asceticism can awaken us to perceive.

But we are also called into the world, the world as it is now, with its politics, economics, technology, science and social constructs. The good, the bad, and the ugly. And yet, there’s a habit in Church world to mistake the meaning of otherworldliness. We find ourselves over and against the world that has been given to us and of which we are a part. Pharisees. But, this is not the stance of the Catholic. Reparation is necessary for our world off its axis, but we cannot convert, what we do not first love.

  1. Find a news source that you trust and enjoy. Follow it. For me, that’s The Wall Street Journal [see the President’s Day Sale, $1 / 2 months!] and The Daily Wire.
  2. Pray this prayer from the Spiritual Diary of Jean Cardinal Danielou, a giant on whose shoulders we can find firm footing:

Jesus, I have come to know that you do not want me to distinguish my sins from the other sins of the world, but to enter more deeply into your heart and consider myself responsible for the sins of those persons whom you may wish: those of Alain, of anyone else as it may please you. You make me feel, Jesus, that I must descend even lower, take with me the sins of others, accept as a result all the punishments that these may draw down upon me from your justice, and in a particular way the disdain of the persons for whom I will offer myself. To accept, or rather to long for dishonor, even in the eyes of those whom I love. To accept the great abasements, of which I am not worthy, in order to be ready at least to accept the small ones. Then, Jesus, my charity will resemble that with which you have loved me.

Men, of all times, now is the best to be a Christian.

02 06 2017
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  • Let's hear your experience. Do you feel the tension in your heart between our call to otherworldliness, while in and among the world?

    • I did feel the tension, and I still do sometimes but it feels like those moments are fleeting. Exodus has helped me order my life toward the salvation of the souls around me...the souls God has placed in my life for a reason. I used to think they were getting in the way of my holiness. Now, I've come to realize they are the cause of EVERY ounce of holiness I possess, and of course only by God's grace and the intercession of our Blessed Mother. That is a great prayer by the way. I'm glad you shared it, and I wholeheartedly agree there has never been a better time, a more important time, to be Christian men. It's time to man up!